Overgive, overcare, overdo.

How (hopefully) not to.

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A belated answer to this question asked in last month’s AMA:

I am a mother to adult sons and really want positive relationships with them and all the men in my life. I'd really like to have some numbers to show to other women in my life what it costs them financially to overgive, overcare, overdo as a start.