Oh The brain fog that descends when I open an excel spreadsheet to try to get my head around my annual earnings. It's really something. I have to factor it in these days, knowing that I'll start to get foggy and confused (even though I'm decent at maths and keep a daily log of my earnings) because a part of me is presumably disassociating! I'm much better now and I love your guest's message that numbers are not a judgement. It's just facts to look at, and also love the reality that life goes up and down and we always find a way to handle it and good to remember that being freelance is a life choice for a lot of us, so the unpredictability of it is all part of the package! xx
Edited to add I have an accountant because I need a second pair of eyes. I often ask the most inane questions because again - FOG.
All of this! And the more I think about it, the more I think I’ve done the same thing previous years. I really must make sure to start a new spreadsheet every April.
I really appreciate you posting this! Just reading it!!! This just helps me feel normal. I'm not at the spreadsheet level, yet. I watch myself sometimes with my behaviours with money and at least I'm aware that somethings gotta CHANGE! Like, who did I just become?! Did I really say/do that?! It's really easy to slip into my Ms. Judgypants archetype and start calling myself names... I struggle with being really great at so many things and yet, this is such a mystery! Being aware of it is helpful as is taking baby steps.
In terms of what I would sing on that stage, it would be Son nata a lagrimar Handel. There's a great recording of it on YouTube with Nathalie Stutzman and Philippe Jarousky. I have found a counter tenor who would like to sing it with me so I better get to work! I'm also working on Mozart's Requiem in the choir I'm in. Heaven! That would be awesome to sing on that stage!
Just paid my taxes yesterday. It’s ok. Not much worse than I expected and truthfully right now, as far as I’m concerned the US is a sad hard mess so only owing in the hundreds more was manageable. But it’s still a hard time here and thank you for your positive outlook, noodles pictures and pictures from your window. It absolutely makes a difference
I recently started subscribing and love the people you interview! They are always very insightful, and I love to see the different ways they think about money.
Been meaning to write about that for a while but I’m still trying to work out a pension split and it is taking forever (we’ve been divorced for 5 years!). But also, I’m sorry. Sending love xx
Oh The brain fog that descends when I open an excel spreadsheet to try to get my head around my annual earnings. It's really something. I have to factor it in these days, knowing that I'll start to get foggy and confused (even though I'm decent at maths and keep a daily log of my earnings) because a part of me is presumably disassociating! I'm much better now and I love your guest's message that numbers are not a judgement. It's just facts to look at, and also love the reality that life goes up and down and we always find a way to handle it and good to remember that being freelance is a life choice for a lot of us, so the unpredictability of it is all part of the package! xx
Edited to add I have an accountant because I need a second pair of eyes. I often ask the most inane questions because again - FOG.
All of this! And the more I think about it, the more I think I’ve done the same thing previous years. I really must make sure to start a new spreadsheet every April.
I really appreciate you posting this! Just reading it!!! This just helps me feel normal. I'm not at the spreadsheet level, yet. I watch myself sometimes with my behaviours with money and at least I'm aware that somethings gotta CHANGE! Like, who did I just become?! Did I really say/do that?! It's really easy to slip into my Ms. Judgypants archetype and start calling myself names... I struggle with being really great at so many things and yet, this is such a mystery! Being aware of it is helpful as is taking baby steps.
In terms of what I would sing on that stage, it would be Son nata a lagrimar Handel. There's a great recording of it on YouTube with Nathalie Stutzman and Philippe Jarousky. I have found a counter tenor who would like to sing it with me so I better get to work! I'm also working on Mozart's Requiem in the choir I'm in. Heaven! That would be awesome to sing on that stage!
Just paid my taxes yesterday. It’s ok. Not much worse than I expected and truthfully right now, as far as I’m concerned the US is a sad hard mess so only owing in the hundreds more was manageable. But it’s still a hard time here and thank you for your positive outlook, noodles pictures and pictures from your window. It absolutely makes a difference
I’m so glad it does and I’m so sorry you’re in this situation. American friends are constantly on my mind.
Wish I started a Lisa! I’m too old now. Great piece Keris and Cait!
I thought the same thing! Although they may not have existed when I was young enough 😂👵🏻
Hmm I think I was too busy hustling a freelance career to know about them. I do get tax free childcare and a government bonus so there’s that!
I am always delighted when the gov bonus comes through on my pension. Even tho the payments I’m making are tiny. Free money!
Oh god this sounds like something I need to do - do you have a link? I have mine with nest.
I think it comes through automatically? I just get an email about mine each time. Does Nest have an app? Maybe it's in the settings.
Oh phewf ok I'll check
Me too! But I just googled and they came in in 2017, so I would have been too old anyway.
Loved this interview Keris. Always learning something new.
Thanks, Linn!
I recently started subscribing and love the people you interview! They are always very insightful, and I love to see the different ways they think about money.
Hi Taylor. Thanks so much!
What can you do this year to save £1000 for an unexpected expense?
That’s a great question!
Selfishly I’d love to see something about divorce and money 😩
Been meaning to write about that for a while but I’m still trying to work out a pension split and it is taking forever (we’ve been divorced for 5 years!). But also, I’m sorry. Sending love xx